I have realised that the last 2 men I was drawn to, and that was drawn (at least partially) to me, were good guys. Now, this is MAJOR! Cos, my life pattern where men are concerned, basically centred around, the more broken you are, the more Sylphi wants to be used by you!
So, here's one in your eye, Bad Bad Patterns! I am actually moving forward, waving at the snails as they race by.... but still .... it's movement! Good, good news. Just thought I'd share with you.